In this blog post, I will guide you on 1) how to use a vibrator with your wife/girlfriend and secondly, 2) which products to choose.
After all, knowing what to do and how to do it is useless if you don’t have the right tools.
Therefore, I put together a list of products that you can use as a guide when shopping for the perfect sex toy for her.
The bullet vibrator
bullet vibrators They are the perfect compact sex toy when you are learning how to use a vibrator with her.
Not only are they small, but many bullet vibrators are extremely powerful and have multiple settings. That way, you can discover the level of vibration that sends it through the roof.
Plus, bullet vibrators can be used for massages and on the body too!
So when you’re figuring out how to use a vibrator with your wife or girlfriend, doing it little at first is a great way to introduce a toy into the bedroom and learn exactly what turns her on. But remember, bullet vibrators are for external use only.
Fingertip vibrators
While bullet vibrators are the perfect first sex toy to use with your lady, finger vibrators Allow all the tingling sensations without the worry of dropping the toy in the heat of the moment.
So when you figure out what turns her on and learn how to use a vibrator with her, a fingertip vibrator is very easy to use. Simply slide it onto your favorite finger and turn it on!
Clitoral stimulators
Clitoral stimulators They are small vibrators created specifically to stimulate that set of nerve endings in your clitoris. They come in all shapes and sizes, many of which are made for her to use as a masturbation toy.
However, there is no reason why you can’t use this sex toy on her and rock her world while watching every expression on her face!
Sure, you can use bullet vibrators on her, as well as internal vibrators. But isn’t it nice to have a few tools in your toolbox?
Internal Vibrators
Internal vibrators are the type of sex toy that you can use with your wife or girlfriend both internally. and externally. Spent just the tip to tease her clitoris. Then, once she’s on the edge, you can use the toy internally to bring her to orgasm.
Just remember to follow his moans, moans, and cues so you don’t push too hard.
When figuring out how to use a vibrator with your wife or girlfriend, make sure you find the right internal vibrator for her. They come in all materials, from plastic to silicone, including honeycomb shapes and realistic penises.
And yes, we ladies do Understand that some of you have trouble handling any penis other than your own, and that’s okay! Find a vibe like this.
The G-spot vibrator
G-spot vibrators are made to stimulate you internally. And, when you learn how to use a vibrator on her, bringing her to a G-spot orgasm with a sex toy will help you master your own technique when you make love to her.
HAS g spot vibrator It looks a little different as it has a curved tip that will rest in the right place when you slide it in a few inches (not all the way!)
Plus, that curved tip allows you to vibrate your clitoris externally.
The multifunction vibrator
The multifunction vibrator may seem like a crazy sex toy. But, if you want to give her an orgasm on both the clitoris and G-spot at the same time, this is the perfect tool for the job.
See, the shaft of a multi-function vibrator rotates to rub her G-spot. And, externally, there is a clitoral stimulator that sits perfectly without any effort on your part.
Using a multi-function vibrator on her may take a little more practice, however, as they have separate controls for both the shaft and the clitoral stimulator. But I’m sure you’ll get the hang of it pretty quickly.
Now, there are plenty of different types of multifunction vibrators to choose from, so where do you start?
How to use a vibrator on her
Knowing how to use a vibrator with your wife is an exciting way to add a spark to your intimate life. Just like switching things up and having sex in new places, trying new positions, or even role-playing, learning how to use a vibrator with her can take sex to a whole new level.
Okay, it doesn’t have to be a wife, for those of you who are single, knowing how to use your girlfriend’s vibrator is also an amazing skill.
So if you’re looking for tips on how to use a vibrator with her, you’ve come to the right place. how am I going to show you the correct points, internally and externally, to stimulate her with a vibrator. Plus, with the help of Be-Be and Grey, I’ll share photos of positions you can use to rock her world with a vibrator all night long.
But first, there is something important to keep in mind….
You are everything she wants; Vibrators are the icing on the cake
If she’s the one asking for a vibrator, don’t take it personally! She doesn’t ask you for a new sex toy because you’re not enough. On the contrary, you are everything she wants and vibrators are simply the icing on the cake. So if you’re worried about not satisfying your wife or girlfriend, stop. The lady in your life just wants to make something good even better.
How using a vibrator with your wife improves sex
There are many ways using a vibrator improves sex. Sure, you have crazy skills, but can you vibe? Can you stimulate her clitoris with throbbing bliss while you make love to her? Or can you handle the double penetration yourself?
The answer is yes to all of the above if you add a vibrator to your time between the sheets. And, depending on the type of vibrator you choose, you can bring her to screaming, writhing orgasms in many different ways.
Types of vibrators to use listed above.
How to use a vibrator with her
Now that you know the basics of how to use a vibrator on her and the right tools for the job, it’s time to get down to the nitty-gritty and show you exactly how it’s done. Our models, Be-Be and Grey, will show you how to use a vibrator with a woman and the best positions to maximize her pleasure and yours.
But first, let’s take a close, intimate look at her vagina. That way, you’ll know how to use a vibrator on her clitoris and other sensitive and erogenous zones surrounding that sweet spot.
How to use a vibrator on your clitoris and vagina
When using a vibrator with your wife or girlfriend, hitting the right spots is essential for her to enjoy it to the fullest without going numb. The key to giving her an incredible clitoral orgasm is to be gentle and not use too high a speed. Follow his verbal and physical cues or ask him where he feels best.
Plus, when you use a vibrator for penetration, it’s a lot like using your penis, but you can watch her arousal without worrying about finishing before her. However, remember to use plenty of lube and start slowly, watching and listening to her cues and don’t push too hard as you could hurt her.
Use a bullet vibrator, clitoral stimulator, or other vibrator against your clitoris. Some women like more pressure, others like less. Additionally, you can enjoy direct stimulation either just above the clitoris (the clitoral hood) or just below the clitoris. Just be careful with the urethral opening with any type of penetration stimulation as it can cause irritation, pain and painful cystitis.
How to use a vibrator on a woman for massage (positions)
Knowing how to use a vibrator to massage her is important because it relaxes her and is the perfect foreplay before bringing her to orgasm manually. Start by using a good massage oil and then run a vibrator over each of your most sensitive spots. Just think about the spots you caress or kiss that make her moan and apply different amounts of pressure.
The best positions to use a vibrator with your wife
Now, Be-Be and Gray are going to show you how to use a vibrator on her and the best positions to watch her squirm, give her oral sex using a vibrator, and penetrate her while using a vibrator on her clit.
missionary style
Using a vibrator on her in the missionary position allows you to observe her body and her expressions while you rub her clitoris or penetrate her vagina or anus. Plus, this position gives you full access to her sensitive breasts and nipples so you can overdo it with the trifecta of sexual stimulation.
doggy style
Using a vibrator on her in the doggy position gives you the most exciting views. In addition, you can stimulate her clitoris, penetrate her vagina or her anus. Plus, this position makes it easier for her to rock against the vibrator, a signal to you that she wants more.
during oral sex
The vast majority of us women love receiving oral sex. And if you’re good at it, you can become the king of oral gratification by penetrating her with a vibrator while using your cunning skills.
during intercourse
The best way to use a vibrator for your wife is to stimulate her clitoris while you are inside her. Not only will you get the thrill of having sex, but you’ll stimulate her in two ways that could very well lead to explosive, mutual orgasms. Plus, these positions bring you physically closer for that sensual skin-to-skin contact.
Doggy style with a twist
Slide it into her doggy style as you reach out and hold a vibrator against her clit. To change things up and give him deeper penetration, have him lie down with his chest on the pillow and his butt in the air.
Spectacular spoon
Spooning is the only way to get very close to your girl while making love. But, by holding a vibrator against her clit while spooning her, they can both warm up the big cock at the same time.
missionary hum
This position is not that easy to achieve, but if you can do it, this is the best position to hit her G-spot while using a vibrator to make her clit tingle.
The electric cowgirl
Using a vibrator on your clit in cowgirl position is easy to do! Plus, as he grinds you, he’ll put more pressure against the vibrator. And the best thing is that you have your hand free to squeeze her butt and breasts.