Let me guess, are you thinking about buying a masturbator, do you already have one that you’re eager to use, or are you curious about using one with your partner? Maybe you’re here for other reasons, who knows! All I know is that I am here to give you all the information you need on how to use a masturbator.
I’m here to guide you through the basics of male masturbators and how they work. I’ll give you some concrete tips on how to elevate your masturbation-masturbator. Last but not least, we’ll go over some important guidelines on how to clean and maintain your masturbator to keep it in top condition.
table of Contents
- A brief introduction to masturbators
- What is a masturbator?
- Why use a masturbator?
- How to use a masturbator
- Additional Tips to Increase Pleasure
- How to clean and care for your masturbator
A brief introduction to masturbators
What is a masturbator?
There are many, many names for many different types of masturbators. All of them have in common that they are devices designed to enhance stimulation and pleasure during solo sessions or even as a couple. They come in all kinds of shapes and sizes, from compact, travel-friendly, double-ended Fleshlights to larger, more realistic masturbators.
The inside of a masturbator is often textured with ridges, bumps, or other patterns to provide additional stimulation as you move the sleeve up and down the shaft of the penis. They are often made of soft, squishy materials, such as TPE, which feel very realistic and respond slightly to temperature.
Why use a masturbator?
Masturbators aren’t just about personal pleasure; It’s also about self-discovery. They can help you better understand your body, discover what you like, and generally improve your sexual experiences. Masturbators are excellent tools for practicing the art of penetrative sex. Use them to determine what tempo, rhythm, angle, tension level or texture you prefer. There are some sensations you can’t create with just your hand! Different types of masturbators can help provide a unique sensation that will elevate your self-love sessions.
Masturbators aren’t just for solo sessions! They can be a great addition to your bedroom fun with your partner. Create the illusion of a threesome or play with the dual stimulation of the masturbator and your partner. Get creative with the positions and enjoy how these babes allow you to caress yourself while performing oral, receiving anal penetration, or while touching someone!
How to use a masturbator
Alright, this is what we’re here for, right? Let’s get back to the basics of how to actually use one of these bad boys. As you will discover along the way, Using a masturbator is quite intuitive.. Yes, I have some important tips you should keep in mind, but when it comes to petting, you already know what you like best. So feel free to be creative!
A step-by-step guide to using a masturbator
Preparation: Lube, lube, lube!
We’ll need things to slide up and down, nice and easy. Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to both your penis and the inside of the masturbator.
This will make insertion much easier and ensure a smooth stroking experience. Reapply lubricant as needed!
Arousal and insertion
You may already be very excited to get started at this point. Make sure you feel excited, erect and ready to slide!
Slowly insert your penis into the masturbator. If this is your first time using this masturbator, it may be a good idea to take things slow to determine if the texture and tension are comfortable for you. The soft, flexible material should feel comfortable and tight around your shaft.
Movement: Find your rhythm!
Now, the best part: massaging yourself!
Move the masturbator up and down the shaft of your penis. Again, notice the sensation of texture and tightness. Adjust the speed and pressure to your liking.
This is also the time to experiment with special features. Perhaps your device vibrates, heats up, spins, or has an adjustable suction valve. Experiment with it and see what you like!
Explore and enjoy!
Take your time and enjoy the unique sensations that your masturbator pampers you. Remember, there is no rush!
You can even enhance your experience by exploring different insertion angles, different positions and even combining the masturbator with other sex toys for beautiful combined bliss.
Additional Tips to Increase Pleasure
Now that we’ve gone over the basics of how to use these devices, I can give you some additional tips on how to make your experience with these devices even better!
- Experiment: Seriously, don’t be afraid to experiment with different movements, speeds, and intensity levels. You may find that certain techniques work better for you than others.
- Combine with other toys: Consider pairing your device with other sex toys for extra stimulation. You could pair it with a vibrating penis ring gold prostate massager!
- Use during foreplay: As I mentioned before, masturbators are not just for solo play. You can totally use them with a partner! Add one to your foreplay or use it to enjoy the fantasy of a threesome.
- Try different positions! I know, changing positions during sex with a real person feels a lot more different, but changing positions with your masturbator isn’t exactly useless either. Maybe you’ll find an angle that’s super comfortable for you! Here’s some inspiration for different positions.
How to clean and care for your masturbator
- Cleaning: After each use, clean your masturbator with warm water and mild soap or sex toy cleaner. Most cases can be removed from any hard shell and turned over for a thorough cleaning.
- Drying: Dry your pet well to prevent the growth of mold or bacteria. After a thorough rinse, you can leave it upside down to air dry. Most of them come with a small clothesline or have a lid or packaging that doubles as a clothesline.
- Apply renewing powder: Some masturbator materials, such as TPE, will become sticky over time after washing. You can use any type of Fleshlight resurfacing powder or cornstarch to make the surface nice and smooth again.
- Storage: Store your toy in a clean, dry place. Each masturbator should be stored individually, ideally in a cloth bag or in its original packaging to avoid contact with other toys.
- Periodic cleaning: Even if you don’t use your toy regularly, it’s a good idea to clean your masturbator every two weeks. This will keep you fresh and ready for action.
Conclusion
There you have it! No matter what type of masturbator you’re working with, these are some basic guidelines to help you get the most out of your toy. Knowing all this, you will also be prepared to provide proper care and maintenance to ensure that your new friend can please you in the long run.
From the simple and satisfying to the luxurious and high-tech, these strokers offer a universe of pleasure possibilities for penis owners. Each type of masturbator brings something unique to the table. With these babies, the path to self-discovery and greater pleasure is tremendously diverse. So, dive in, explore and caress!