Okay, so you’ve searched the Internet for some Detailed guide on how to use a ball gag.
You have found tons of information about different types of ball gags and safety guidelines for using ball gags.
Of course, this information is very important!
But you might just be overlooking the fact that someone might need the full basics of how to use a ball gag!
Well, your search is over. I’m here to explain the basics of using ball gags!
In this post, I will guide you through the following points:
Getting that bad boy out of the bedroom!
So how do we go from thoughts and desires about using a gag to actually doing it? There are few things to remember in this process…
Communicate with your partner beforehand!
You’ve probably talked to your partner about why you want to introduce a gag into your sex life, and if not, you should do it now!
Have an open conversation about what you would like about it. What they could do to each other and why it would feel good! Maybe you want to try using gags as (consensual) punishment during your kinky play, or maybe you’re really excited about the idea of drooling play!
It might be a good idea to go online and find a suitable ball gag together. Make the process an intimate and exciting activity for both of you! Here is a list of the the best online sex stores that we love and trust!
Setting the stage and getting in the mood…
Once you’ve gotten your new kinky accessory, you need to get familiar with it. Examine the clamping mechanism. Find out how to adjust the strap to fit your needs. It’s good to master the practical aspect before you get hot and heavy!
Set the mood as you normally would. Start turning each other on like you normally would. You might want to include some kinky energy in the dynamic. Hair pulling, spanking, and light slapping can do wonders for establishing a Dom/under power dynamic! Include
How to put on a ball gag
When you’re ready to put the gag on, you’ll both be excited by the added sensations after turning each other on with some light, kinky play!
So how do you wear it when the time comes?
The easiest way is to have the submissive put the ball in his mouth first (behind his teeth). When the ball is secured, the Dom can fasten the strap around his head.
- perfect fit – Make sure the ball is not too big for the user. It will have to go after your teeth and will restrict your breathing. Start small with beginner ball gags or breathable ball gags!
- Sure – When fastening the strap, do not tighten it too much for the user’s comfort, but if it is too loose, you risk the ball falling out in the middle of the game. Balance is key!
- Constant supervision – A golden rule during any type of bondage play is to never leave your submissive unattended while they are restrained. You never know when they will feel uncomfortable or an emergency will occur!
How to use a ball gag during play sessions
Okay, that’s it, we’re using the gag and… now what? Of course, you can continue with your regularly scheduled sex program and enjoy the added look and feel of the gag! But here are some tips to enhance your BDSM gagging experience with kinky behavior!
Play with your new dynamic power…
Once the gag is on, you may notice how that instantly intensifies your power dynamic as a dominant and submissive. So lean on it And see how far you want to go!
- mocking questions – Obviously, your submissive will not be able to speak while wearing the gag. If it’s their first time using one, it can be fun to show them how little they have to say. Ask them questions you know they won’t be able to answer to make fun of them. Ask them what they want you to do to them and how it feels!
- Cause muffled moans – You may want to continue your kinky little “foreplay” and see how your submissive reacts to a little spanking, hair pulling, or even more direct stimulation. Press their buttons and watch them squirm to react with deliciously muffled moans! Use your favorite powerful vibrator, such as a vibrating wandto give them intense orgasms while they are gagged!
Combines with other BDSM toys.
If you’re looking to level up your kinky play during your gagged experience, there are several other BDSM accessories to use during your session! Give your submissive a more intense bondage experience with some tools for sensation and impact play:
Elevate your pleasure with these torturous devices by using them as attachments! There are many options to spice up your prank game. Check out these ball gags with nipple clamps or ball gag harnesses for more intense submission!
Keep an eye on your submarine!
Enjoy the muffled sounds, the drooling, the look of your new gagged experience, but be sure to check in with your submissive throughout the entire play session.
Make sure they are okay and comfortable, and that they want to keep going.
If you are a beginner with the ball gag, be sure to keep an eye on the time and do not allow your submissive to wear the ball gag for more than 15 to 20 minutes at a time.
Jaw fatigue is real!
How to Remove a Ball Gag and Clean It
Alright, you’re done with all your teasing, playing, and gagging and you’re ready to take off your gag.
It makes it easy…
Open the strap or harness and let your submissive slowly release the ball from his mouth. Now, an important step to properly using a ball gag is to provide good aftercare.
Your submissive’s jaw may be sore after the session. They may be cold and need a blanket after potentially being tied up. You both may need to reconnect physically and emotionally after experiencing a new dynamic.
Massage your submissive’s jaw and face, warm up under the covers, cuddle him, and talk about what you liked (or didn’t like) about your session. These could be great ways to give your partner some proper aftercare after kinkier sessions!
Cleaning and care
It is quite possible that drool and sweat have dirty the gag after the first use, understandable! And, of course, it’s important to keep any sexual accessories you have clean and in good condition after each use!
The cleaning and care of all the gags depends a lot on the materials and design. As long as the ball is made of non-porous materials like silicone, metal, glass, or ABS plastic, you can easily wash it with warm water and a mild soap or any sex toy cleaner.
The strap is usually made of nylon or leather. Both can be gently cleaned with a damp cloth. Allow all components to dry completely before storing the ball clamp in a compartment that will protect it from dust and lint.
Now it’s all clean and ready to go the next time you feel the need to sexually silence your submissive!