Chances are you’re pretty familiar with how to make one. You may have even tried all kinds of different ways to masturbate! But what about anal masturbation?
Anally masturbating is very different from the old penis and can unlock incredible and unique sensations for penis owners!
Unfortunately, there are many negative connotations and associations with anal play, especially for men. Although they are generally completely false, many men are still apprehensive about butt things.
However, the best way to overcome fear is knowledge! So today we’ll go over exactly why anal masturbation can be so pleasurable and what happens to your body when you experiment with the backdoor. We’ll also go over techniques you can use and toys that can help you on your journey to exceptional anal orgasms!
Why does anal masturbation feel good to men?
If you’re afraid to try anal masturbation for the first time, it might be good to know all the ways it can feel amazing!
First of all, you have a lot of nerve endings around your anus. The outer two-thirds of the anal canal are very sensitive to touch and share a sensory nerve with the rest of the genital area, called the pudendal nerve.
This nerve provides sensation to the penis, as well as the perineum and anus. It is responsible for all types of sensations around that area, from pain to pleasure. But, if you’re getting down and dirty alone (or with your partner), the pudendal nerve will go into “arousal” mode and interpret the sensations as super sexually satisfying.
Then you have the prostate. Having something, whether it’s a toy or a finger, rubbing your prostate can be incredibly pleasurable. In fact, it can even cause an orgasm!
Many prostate owners describe a prostate orgasm as much deeper, more widespread, and more intense than an orgasm brought on by penile stimulation. It can also last much longer!
All about the prostate
The prostate is part of the penis owners reproductive system and is located between the penis and the bladder. Only AMAB (assigned male at birth) people have a prostate, including cisgender men and trans women.
In basic terms, the prostate is a walnut-sized gland whose function is to secrete an enzyme that ensures that semen is liquid enough for ejaculation, which is also necessary to be fertile.
The prostate is also known as the p-spot because of how pleasurable it can be when stimulated. That’s why some people also call it the “male G-spot.”
To find it, all you need to do is insert a lubricating finger 1 to 2 inches into the anus. The prostate will feel like a fleshy bulb on the wall of the rectum, towards the front of the body.
Will I ejaculate from anal masturbation?
Short answer: something like that.
When you come from the stimulation of the penis, the prostate releases prostatic fluid, which contains that enzyme we talked about earlier. This mixes with sperm and seminal fluid to form semen.
We have also talked about how the penis and anal areas share a sensory nerve. The pudendal nerve, among its many talents, is also responsible for ejaculation. So when the prostate is stimulated, prostate fluid can be released through the penis, but without sperm.
Stimulating the prostate until this fluid is released is often called prostate milking. Sometimes it is ejaculated like normal semen would or sometimes it just leaks out. Also, it doesn’t always happen, so don’t worry if your anal masturbation session doesn’t result in it.
Ways to masturbate anally
Fingers
We’ve already covered how to find the prostate with your finger, but what about how to actually please it? You can take a look at the next section on how to prepare to masturbate anally, but now we’ll get right into the good stuff.
First of all, you will need to relax. The thought of putting something on your butt may make you feel tense, but that will make it much less comfortable. So, take a few deep breaths and do your best to relax your sphincter.
Then lubricate a clean finger. Make sure your nails are trimmed and see below to find out what type of lubricant is best. Start by circling the outside of the anus and stroking or massaging the perineum.
Once you’re ready, start gently inserting your finger into your anus and adding more lube if you need it. Go slowly and savor the sensations you are experiencing. Maybe you could even tease yourself by gently moving your finger in and out.
As you feel comfortable, go further until you feel the prostate. Try massaging it using a “come hither” motion with your finger or rotating it in small circles. You can experiment with the firmness and speed of your stimulation, but be patient with yourself and take your time to feel it all.
You can also try combining this with penile stimulation if you wish. This sets you up for some incredible blended orgasms and can often take the pressure off the first few times you try anal masturbation.
anal toys
Fingers aren’t the only way to enjoy solo anal pleasure! Here are some of our favorite anal toys and why you might like them too…
Aneros Helix Syn V
This little prostate massager is a pocket rocket! Made by prostate toy experts Aneros, the Helix Syn V is small but powerful. anal vibrator with an ergonomic design that ensures maximum prostate pleasure. It also has T-shaped arms that gently vibrate your perineum, meaning you can use it hands-free without worrying about going in too much.
Lelo Loki Wave 2
It could look a lot like a rabbit vibratorbut in reality it is a specialty prostate massager. The Lelo Loki Wave is an anal tester with a different touch. In addition to emitting rumbling vibrations, the shaft moves back and forth in an engaging motion that gives the prostate a delicious massage. The rabbit-shaped arm also sends vibrations to the perineum and the handle allows you to maneuver it until you find an angle that works for you.
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Go old school with this manual prostate massager! Sex toys made from hard materials, like this borosilicate glass, can provide incredibly firm stimulation, perfect for prostate massage. Plus, they’re super tough and can take a good beating. This one has a large loop for control and a very bulbous head with a bulge specifically designed to reach the prostate with ease.
njoy pure wand
The njoy Pure Wand is quite famous in the world of sex toys. Sometimes called “the squirting dildo”, it is made of solid stainless steel and is known for its incredible g spot stimulation talent. However, it is just as effective for prostate pleasure during anal masturbation! The curved design makes it easy to reach and move. You can also choose between the large, smooth balls at each end, depending on your experience level. Just don’t insert it too far as it doesn’t have a flared base.
Lovehoney 7″ Curved Dildo
If you don’t mind being a little more realistic during your anal activities, then check this out. silicone dildo by Lovehoney. It has a thin, smooth shaft and a pronounced head that is ideal for prostate stimulation. Plus, the curved shaft makes it much easier to hit the prostate than a traditional straight one. This dildo can be held, but also has a strong suction cup for hands-free riding (and is harness compatible if you want to try some out too). strap-on play with a partner).
B-Vibe 2 Rimming Plug
If you’re looking for an anal plug that does it all, then look no further than the B-Vibe Rimming Plug. this powerful vibrating anal plug It keeps a secret on its neck: rows of beads just below the soft silicone that rotate to provide the delicious sensation of rimming, also known as analingus. That means pleasure for all anal areas, not just the prostate. The Rimming Plug comes in three sizes: Petite, Medium 2, and XL.
Fifty Shades of Gray Intensified Anal Beads of Pleasure
And finally, something a little different. anal beads It may seem a little strange at first, but they can provide truly unique sensations. This silicone set is perfect for beginners, with soft beads that vary in size, so you can insert as much or as little as you feel comfortable. Use them as an alternative to a anal dildoOr insert them, enjoy penis stimulation and then remove them at the moment of orgasm for an incredible boost.
How to prepare for anal masturbation
Cleaning
Anal play can make people feel a little gross, regardless of gender. However, it’s really not as messy or gross as you might fear!
In reality, poop is not stored in the anal canal or rectum, where anal masturbation will take place. Instead, it is stored higher up in the sigmoid colon until you go to the bathroom, when it goes down and out. So unless you really need to poop (in which case, don’t do anal sex), you won’t accidentally leave anything behind.
However, there may still be some remains out there. However, fortunately, they can be easily fixed with some quick measures. anal cleaning. It is recommended to take a brief shower beforehand, where you can rinse the external anal area and gently probe the inside of the lower rectum with a finger to remove possible remains of fecal matter.
You may have also heard of anal douching. This involves inserting a douching nozzle into your butt and cleaning your rectum and anus with water, saline, or a cleansing solution. It may give you peace of mind, but it also carries many risks, including an increased risk of infections and disruption of electrolyte balance. Plus, it could push water too far up your colon and make things even messier!
Instead, if you want to be safer, try covering your finger or toy with a condom, or wear gloves.
Lubricating
Unlike other genitals, the anus does not lubricate itself. That means you’ll have to add your own, and in sufficient quantity, or you’ll be faced with an uncomfortable and probably painful experience.
While you can use any lubricant, we recommend opting for a specialized anal lubricant. It’s thicker and generally longer lasting than regular lube, which can be especially helpful when you’re enjoying anal masturbation on your own.
There are also different lubricant formulas with different bases. Your safest bet is a water-based lubricant such as this one from Lovehoneywhich is compatible with all sex toy and condom materials and is very easy to clean.
Another pretty good option is a silicone-based lubricant, such as this Sliquid Silver lubricant. It lasts much longer than water-based lube and can be silkier, but it also has some drawbacks. You should not use it with silicone sex toys, as it will damage the surface of the material irreparably and is very likely to stain your sheets and/or clothing.
Lastly, you should stay away from any lubricants that numb or “desensitize” your anal area. The anus and anal canal are delicate and can be easily injured if you are not careful. The numbing lubricant prevents you from feeling pain or discomfort, but that also means you won’t know if you’re causing damage.