Do strapless straps work? Well, you would think that with the advancements in the sex toy industry, a strapless belt would work and work well. After all, some vibrators can excite someone on the other side of the world, sex toys that sync with virtual reality glasses, and sex dolls with artificial intelligence.
What is a strapless belt?
A strapless strap-on is a dildo or vibrator created without harnesses or straps and used by couples of all genders for intercourse and pegging. I’m sure if you’ve never seen a strapless belt before, you’re probably thinking, “What the heck?” And yes, you’d be right, that’s the first thing that crossed my mind when I saw one.
Is a strapless dildo the same as a strapless harness dildo?
Yes, a strapless dildo is the same as a strapless belt. I’ve seen them referred to as both. But when searching for this particular sex toy, I discovered that the term strapless is the most commonly used term.
How did strapless Strap-On come about?
Necessity is the mother of invention! And thanks to an eager, wide-eyed lesbian named Mia, who wanted nothing more than to feel pleasure while giving pleasure, the first strap-on was born. The Feeldoe was created in the early 2000s and is still popular today. Of course, every other sex toy company has put their own spin on the toy, but the original purpose remains; a girl with a cock who enjoys that cock while sharing it with another.
How do strapless belts work?
Strapless belts are a fantastic idea…. in theory. But how do strapless strap-ons work? Here’s how they work: As you can see in the illustration above, the strapless harness is a 2-ended sex toy. The bulbous end is inserted into the vagina and moved forward towards the G-spot and pelvic bone.
Then, the ribbed area, which serves to hold the sex toy against the pubis, also has ribs to stimulate the clitoris. The weight of the phallus, or dildo, pulls downward, swinging the bulb forward and pressing it against the user’s pubic bone; something like a counterweight.
The idea is to make the strapless belt look more natural and like the wearer has a penis. Additionally, this sex toy is created to bring pleasure to both the user and the recipient, which would make sense, especially with the addition of a clitoral stimulator for the user.
How well do strapless belts work?
So now it’s time to get down to the nitty-gritty: how well do strapless belts work? Although I have never tried a strapless belt, I have wondered what it would feel like to have a penis. (I’ve come to the consensus that it can feel like having a giant clitoris.) However, after giving birth to 4 children, the idea of holding such a large sex toy inside me seems like a huge comedic failure.
But that’s just me.
So, I think you have to have vaginal muscles of steel and do Kegel exercises several times a day, every day, to be able to wear a strapless belt. Also, here are a few other things that I think can help or hinder wearing a strapless dress. strap on dildo:
- That vagina gets slippery when it gets excited, plus you need lube to get it in.
- The strapless belt would be heavy and could move around a lot or fall off.
- You may have to keep your legs together, which is not an optimal position for pushing.
- Would probably work best in the cowboy/cowgirl position.
- You may have to keep it in place.
- Indoor light bulbs can be uncomfortable.
- Only constant concentration can sour the user’s sexy mood.
What Strapless Wearers Have to Say
Since I haven’t personally used a strapless belt, I set out to find answers. for youof people who have used them; some successful, others not so much.
Patricia said this:
“We tried the strapless dildo and for me personally it was very uncomfortable. It was difficult to position it correctly.”
This is from username ahatmadeofshoes12:
“I’m wearing a strapless strap. It doesn’t stay on or stay stable enough to be effective. You’d have to have pelvic floor muscles of steel. I find it too painful because to keep it stable you have to focus all your energy on activating your Kegel muscles and then it’s impossible to use them to push and focus on your partner.
I still use it but I use it with my harness. I like it because it stimulates me and my partner at the same time.”
Reba’s experience with a strapless strap-on:
“I really wanted a double ended, but my girlfriend had owned and used a Feeldoe before our relationship and said she didn’t like it, so we did some research to look at other options. We ended up ordering the Fuze Tango. It’s a smaller company out of Canada, we had to look up reviews and it was hard to find a website to buy it, but it has ridges for stimulation of the user’s clitoris AND room for a bullet vibrator! We HAD to try it.
Unfortunately, my girlfriend is smaller and the bulb end is too much for her when she wears it, but I’m a sturdy 5’10” farm girl with a vagina of steel and I LOVE wearing it. I can go without a harness if we’re not doing anything too wild, but we’re usually pretty vigorous and I prefer to wear a harness for those occasions because my pelvic floor muscles suck and I need to do Kegels. It gives me a lot of stimulation and control, and my girlfriend loves to receive, conveys bullet vibrations like a dream. His only criticism is that he wishes the receiver end was more rifled.”
Franklin weighs in on strapless pegging and whether they really work:
“Sometimes. Maybe. Possibly.”
My partners Zaiah and Maxine have linked me to a Feeldoe. However, you need pretty strong pelvic floor muscles to handle it. (Kegels. Many Kegels.)
Many women use makeshift harnesses with them. You can make one quite easily with a scarf. Insert the Feeldoe. Place the scarf on the base. Take the two ends of the **scarf, place them between your legs, around your hips, then tie them under the Feeldoe.”
**Read to the end for tips on how to make a scarf harness for your strapless belt.
Do strapless strap-on dildos really work? The consensus
So do strapless belts really work? The answer is yes and no. The reason is that it depends on several factors; like how sensitive your vagina is, the strength of your pelvic floor, and the weight and angle of the dildo.
Plus, there’s a lot that depends on how you use your strapless dildo, the sexual positions you’re in, and whether you’ll be using it for vaginal intercourse or pegging. Either way, if you’re looking for a sex toy that allows you to give exciting penetration while feeling those delicious sensations of vaginal and clitoral stimulation, a strapless harness is worth trying.
After all, isn’t sex about discovering new and exciting adventures with your partner and having stronger, more intense orgasms? So, open that sexual imagination and try something new and SINsational.