Whether you’re locked up for a long time or enjoy a few days under lock and key here and there, chastity play is a great way to add more excitement and increase the feeling of anticipation.
There are many different reasons to wear chastity devices, but many enjoy chastity play for the thrill of giving up control of their genitals to another person and the anticipation of when they will finally be released.
Many report that a period of chastity can lead to explosive orgasms when released, which is not surprising considering all the built-up tension.
Let the chastity games begin!
Now you have your equipment (or find our review of the The best chastity cages for men here. and for women), and you’re locked in and ready to play, the only step left is to choose a game and start playing! These are just suggestions and all games can be modified to suit your needs and desires. You may want to shorten it or lengthen it or find even more ways to tease and torture your partner before you let her out!
On the rocks
This game is ideal for playing alone or with a partner and only requires a few basic accessories. To play, place your key in a container filled with water and put it in the freezer until frozen. When you or your keyholder decide there’s time to play, take the frozen block and let it melt to release the key. They say a watched pot never boils, but in this case, it’s more like a watched block of ice that never melts. You’ll be desperate with anticipation as you watch and wait, but be careful not to disturb your keychain, or they might put it back in the freezer!
The luck of the dice
The sky is the limit when it comes to dice-based chastity games and you can keep adding new rules as your chastity game develops.
Here’s a simple one to get you started. Take two dice. The first decides how many days you are locked up, so it could be one day or six depending on the luck of the roll! The roll decides how many minutes you’ll be allowed out by taking the number on the die and multiplying it by 10. If you roll a six, you’re lucky: that’s a full hour of freedom. I just hope you don’t take one out! You can also add a third die/roll to decide what you will be allowed to do when you are released by assigning each number a specific activity (for example, 1 = oral sex, 2 = penetrative sex, etc.).
Keychain test
This is the perfect way to show your devotion to your keychain by showing it how well you know it! Have your key holders ask you questions about themselves that you must answer. Each correct answer accumulates several minutes of freedom, but each incorrect answer takes minutes from the bank. End with negative points and it’s up to your keyholder to decide your punishment!
Chasity’s Scavenger Hunt
If you love the thrill of the chase and want something a little more complicated, why not try a sexy treasure hunt that could lead you to freedom? Have your keyholder come up with clues, puzzles, or tasks that you must solve to get the next clue. This is a game that can continue, so it is up to your keyholder how many clues there are before the end. For added anticipation, they can keep it a secret, so you never know if you’re close to the end or not!
Goals, Goals, Goals
Are you tired of setting goals and giving up after the first few days? You might be more motivated if you knew that fulfilling them would earn you your freedom! Every time you complete the goal, you gain time out of chastity, and every time you skip it (you guessed it), there’s a punishment! It could be a waste of time or any other punishment the keyholder deems appropriate. This is another perfect game to play alone or as a couple.
In a situation
If you love the indecision of being stuck between a rock and a hard place, then chastity games will help you move forward. Think of it as a cruel and perverted version of “Would You Rather?” This is especially fun for keyholders who love to be cruel. Have your captive choose between more time locked up or a task you know he or she won’t enjoy. If you love humiliation games, this is the game for you!
card games
Cards are another great tool for chastity games, as you can make up many different rules. If you’ve ever played the King’s Cup (also known as Ring of Fire or Cascade), then you have a chastity game ready to go! Assign each card to a different sex act or free time and let the cards decide! However, it is still up to the key holder to choose when a card can be selected. Put the cards somewhere you can see them for some extra teasing!
Hide and seek
Have your keyholder hide the key and let the search begin! You can make it as short or as long as you want. For a quick game, let your partner hide the key somewhere in the house. Make it even more exciting by having them tease you while you search, upping the ante to find the key. For a longer game, expand your search area and have your keychain give you clues.
Leave with good behavior
This chastity play is perfect for exploring dominance and submission and is beneficial for both partners. You get the pleasure of being locked in and pleasing your keyholder and being treated like a king or queen! Your keyholder may make requests that you may choose to complete. It could be anything from cooking them a nice meal to giving them great oral sex! They must then rate your efforts out of 10 and your score corresponds to the time you will be unlocked.
Climax on the clock
If your keyholder is a stickler for time, this could be a quick and fun game! When they decide to release you, you will have a set time to reach orgasm, and for every minute you spend in time, you will extend your time backwards in total genital blockage. Here they really can be as kind or as cruel as they want!
What can chastity play add to your chastity play?
While the thrill of chastity alone may be enough to leave you tingling with excitement and wondering when you’ll get your next glimpse of freedom, chastity games can add a more playful touch to your days locked up.
Once locked into your chosen chastity device, the game decides when you will be released and perhaps even what you will be allowed to do.
In some situations, that means you will respond to both your keyholder or Dom/Domme and the game for a double dose of submission.
- Games can make things more spontaneous and help you break routines.
- They can be a great way to get started with chastity play and try something new with your partner.
- It could make it more fun for the key holder, especially if this is not a role they particularly like or have as much confidence in.
- There are chastity games to play alone or as a couple.
- The element of chance and luck can add more excitement.
- You can create games that suit your needs.
- You can turn practically anything into chastity play. Your imagination is the only limit here!
Safety in chastity play
We want to have good, clean, kinky fun and part of that is making sure everyone involved is safe, so be sure to follow these guidelines for safe play.
- Always follow the rules of safety, sanity, sobriety and consent for both the key holder and the person in the chastity device.
- Agree on boundaries and a safety word/sign in advance.
- Always, always have a spare key that you can access in case of emergency.
- Be sure to clean and dry your genitals and chastity device regularly.
- Check periodically for chafing or irritation and remove the device if your skin breaks or irritates.