Strap in, sit back, and get ready to become a master of strap-on sex positions!
Putting on a harness and experiencing the power of becoming a penetrator is truly exciting.
However, it can also be a little intimidating!
Having a new appendix opens up many new possibilities, but it also comes with a learning curve.
But that’s what we’re here for!
We’ve rounded up some of our best strap-on positions for everyone, from beginners to advanced.
Also, at the end of the post I added my best tips for making strap-on sex more pleasurable for the wearer.
One last note before getting into the matter.
This list is by no means exhaustive – just a little inspiration to get you started! In fact, most sex positions work with a strap-on.
Harness sex positions for beginners
you have your strap kitbut what happens if we use it with another person for the first time?
Getting used to controlling your new addition may take a little practice, as you don’t get the same response you would with a penis.
That’s why it’s good to start with some positions that are well suited to belts, like the ones we’ve selected here.
rodeo rider
You may know it as the cowgirl position, but we’ve gone with a more neutral name. Whatever you call it, this position is fantastic for a strapon beginner.
Driving positions give the receiving partner control of the depth and speed of penetration. This means that the partner wearing the belt does not have to think too much about pushing, which can be difficult at first. Not to mention, pushing can be quite stimulating when you’re not used to it!
The partner wearing the belt can also reach and stimulate their partner’s penis or clitoris with their hands. Gold, add a gold vibrating wand.
Spoon strap position
The classic spoon position also works great with a belt and doesn’t require you to be a professional thruster. This intimate position is perfect for sensual and cozy strapon sex.
The partner wearing the belt can reach out to stimulate their partner’s nipples, clitoris, or penis, or simply put their arms around them.
Modified missionary
Experience missionary sex from a whole new angle with a strap-on role reversal! The belt wearer is on top and in control, while the receiving partner lies on their back.
Add a pillow under the recipient’s hips or adjust the position of their legs to find the perfect angle.
This is a great position to get down to business! The receiving partner can lightly scratch their partner’s back, run their fingers through their hair, or even get a good grip on their butt!
More adventurous strap positions
Once you’ve mastered the basics and become one with your belt, you’ll be ready to move on to some more advanced positions that require a little more in the thrusting department. With a little practice, it will feel second nature!
puppy on leash
Enjoy the power that comes with this classic position!
With your partner on all fours, slowly enter from behind.
You may need to adjust the angle to find what works for you, so communication is key.
The penetrating partner can hold his partner’s hips to help balance and coordinate movements.
If you have a curved dildo, like these pegging dildosMake the curveball point down instead of up to target your partner’s gop point.
Dog with leash and support
This more relaxed version of doggy style also alters the angle of penetration to create some new sensations.
Assume the classic doggy position, but have the receiving partner rest their upper body on a sexual position pillow.
A couple of regular pillows stacked on top of each other will also work.
If the receiving partner owns a vulva and also enjoys anal play, their partner can massage their anus or add a butt plug or something. anal beads to have a little more fun.
reverse rodeo
You may recognize this pose from earlier in the post.
Also known as reverse cowgirl, in this position, the rider faces his partner’s feet.
The travel partner can hold his partner’s legs for stability or use a free hand to stimulate his clitoris or penis.
The partner wearing the belt can use their free hands to massage their partner’s legs or butt.
G Whiz / P Whiz
This more advanced position is perfect for targeting your partner’s P-spot if they have a penis or their G-spot (internal structure of the clitoris) if they have a vulva.
Hitting these highly sensitive sweet spots can lead to really strong orgasms, so it’s worth the effort!
Use a sex pillow or some normal pillows to elevate the hips of the receiving partner.
Bliss tailgate strap position
This position is perfect for exploring anal play with a strap-on. The receiving partner lies face down, allowing him or her to relax into the position. The receiving partner straddles them and slowly enters from behind.
Remember that the anus does not self-lubricate, so apply plenty Thick water-based lubrication. And reapply as needed!
How to make harness sex positions more pleasurable for the user
In addition to the essentials, whether a strap-on or underwear with dildo and harness, some other tools will take your strapon sex to the next level.
Although strap-on sex is very emotionally and psychologically stimulating, the user does not tend to receive much physical stimulation. Luckily, there are some options to help you get yours!
egg vibrators
Usable egg vibrators Provides internal stimulation without needing to hold it in place. Simply insert the egg into your vagina, find your favorite vibration setting, and then slide the harness over it.
If you have a vibrating egg with remote controlIt’s easy to adjust settings without having to move the harness. Or, for a little more fun, hand the remote to your partner and let them control your pleasure!
The Lush Lovense 3 It has incredibly powerful vibrations and is app-enabled, so you can control it from your phone, sync it to your playlist, or play from long distance.
panty vibrators
If you prefer clitoral stimulation, you can slide a panty vibrator inside his harness. This will only work with harnesses that have an underwear-style crotch, as there should be enough fabric to keep the vibrator in place.
Again, opt for a panty vibrator with a remote or app if you know you’ll want to adjust the settings mid-session.
Panty vibrators that attach to your underwear/harness with a magnet are great as they don’t move while you’re thrusting. Tea WeVibe Moxie and Lovense Ferri They are two great options. Plus, they can even be controlled from your phone!
Butt plugs (any kind!)
If you like anal play, butt plugs are ideal for use under a harness. And there are tons of different types to choose from, each offering a different feel.
If you love intense stimulation, you can opt for a anal plug with remote controllike him Lovense Silence 2. Or, if you prefer that feeling of fullness, a weighted butt plug might be the way to go!
There are also many sizes to choose from, from small beginner plugs until large anal plugs For those who want a satisfying stretch!