Bondage and restraint are one of the core elements of BDSM, but for many it can seem intimidating. Either you invest in some very specific cuffs and straps, or you get some rope and become a knot master, right? Well, there is another option…
Bondage tape is a dream for beginners and experienced practitioners alike. Easy to use and incredibly versatile, bondage tape is a hidden gem of the kinky world.
Find out how to use bondage tape below, with ideas on how and where to tie your partner, what to think about when using bondage tape, and how to do it safely.
What is bondage tape?
Bondage tape is a specific type of tape designed for use in bondage and restraint. It only sticks to itself and not to skin, hair, furniture or anything else! That means you won’t pull your skin or hair!
It can be used to bandage hands, ankles or other parts of the body, just as you would with cuffs gold rope bondage.
But that’s not all: bondage tape is incredibly customizable and can be used for almost anything you can think of. Simply scroll down to see a full list of ideas to help you get started.
It’s basically a complete bondage kit. sexual restrictions on a roll of tape. You don’t need to have a whole warehouse of expensive kinky sex toys, like spreader bars, slavery restrictionsand hogtie restraints.
Although it may seem like it, not all bondage tapes are the same. Bondage tape rolls can come in different widths, lengths, and colors.
They can also have different levels of elasticity, something that can be difficult to tell just by looking at it.
How does it compare to Bondage rope?
Bondage tape and bondage rope are compared a lot. After all, they are used for virtually identical purposes. Both are reusable (although you’ll have to take care of unwrapping the tape), but that’s where the similarities end.
Bondage tape is, in general, much friendlier to beginners in bdsm. It’s much easier to put on and take off, and doesn’t require a boy scout level of training in knots! If your submissive wants to get out quickly, all you have to do is take out the bondage scissors and put them down.
However, almost all bondage tapes are made of PVC (a type of plastic). That means it’s not particularly breathable, something to keep in mind if you plan to wear it frequently.
Bondage tape is not…
Bondage tape is a special type of tape that is designed to adhere to itself and only itself. There are many other types of tape, but the only type of tape you should use for bondage is bondage tape!
I’ve seen a lot of dangerous advice on the internet about what to use as bondage tape, but some to avoid include:
- adhesive tape
- electrical tape
- Adhesive tape
- adhesive tape
- Micropore tape
- sports tape
Ways to use bondage tape
Here are some ideas for ways to use bondage tape in your BDSM adventures!
Grips
You can easily bind a submissive’s wrists or ankles with some duct tape to restrict their movement, just as you would with hand or ankle cuffs.
Keep in mind that there is a little more wiggle room around the ankles, so you may need a couple more layers there.
Thigh restraints
An easy but super sexy position for your submissive is to wrap their wrists up to their thighs. Alternatively, wrap your legs or ankles along with your thighs to keep them kneeling exactly where you want them.
tie
A hogtie is a place where the wrists and ankles meet, usually behind the back. This position can seem incredibly vulnerable, so it may be best for those who have a bit of bondage experience.
Furniture
Use the miraculous adhesive abilities of bondage tape to bind your submissive to some bdsm furniture. It could be a bed, a door, a sex chair, a sex table, or anything else you can find around the house. Remember that the tape will not stick to furniture, so you will have to wrap it around something and tape it to itself, like you would with rope.
Jaw
Bondage tape is perfect ball gag for some diy bdsm fun as it is not affected by saliva, does not pull out your hair or damage your skin. However, you will have to wrap the tape around your head to keep it secure. If the mouth is open, make sure it is not tight enough to cut any soft tissue such as the corners of the mouth.
Clothes
If you like the latex look, why not try making clothes out of duct tape? Wrap layers of ribbon to create dresses, skirts, bikinis, tights and more. Just remember that bondage tape is not very breathable, so be prepared to sweat a little.
role play
The versatility of bondage tape really allows your imagination to run wild. Try a role-play scenario in a hostage situation to reinforce some sub/dom dynamics, or even create a bridle and harness for pony play! However, as always, be sure to discuss beforehand what you’re both comfortable with and have a safe word ready.
Orgasm game
Bondage tape can not only secure things to you (or yourself), but it can also secure things to you. If you’re feeling adventurous, play a vibrator (like a vibrating wand) on your submissive’s inner thigh or near her clitoris and watch her squirm in pleasure.
shibari
Shibari is the Japanese art of bondage, usually performed with ropes. Some shibari rope configurations and positions, such as breast bondageIt can be replicated with bondage tape if you know what you’re doing. However, it is important that you continue studying the principles and safety of shibari before trying it. Also, never try to suspend with duct tape!
Using bondage tape safely
Like any BDSM tool, bondage tape comes with some rules. While BDSM can be incredibly liberating and satisfying, it is a practice that requires mutual consent and understanding. Otherwise, it can be potentially dangerous for everyone involved.
Here are some essential safety tips for those interested in bondage…
Use bondage scissors
The number one accessory you will need to use with bondage tape is a pair of scissors or safety scissors. They are the same style used in emergency rooms and doctor’s offices, with a special shape that protects the skin from the blades. It is always important when practicing bondage to have a quick way to release your submissive from their restraints. This could be due to physical or mental reasons, and safety scissors allow you to do this quickly and safely.
Informed and enthusiastic consent
Before starting any BDSM play, make sure you are both okay with the idea. Talk openly with each other about bondage, discussing what you are comfortable with and what you are interested in trying. It’s okay to have reservations about things! You can try setting “soft” and “hard” boundaries: things you’re interested in doing later but not yet, and things you know you’ll never be open to.
Set a safe word
Once you are both ready to break the bondage tape, you must establish a safe word or signal. This is something the submissive can say or do to immediately stop the scene. Make it something that is totally out of place in the bedroom, like “Broccoli!”, to avoid being mistaken for role-play. They should also agree on what happens when the safe word is said.
Don’t overtighten the tape!
While bondage tape is very easy to apply, it is also quite easy to overtighten. You should never wrap bondage tape tightly enough to cause pain or discomfort to the user. If you are concerned about the security of the fastening system, use more layers of tape instead of making it tighter.
Warning signs to look out for include numbness, cold or cold skin, tingling, and pale or blue skin. If you notice any of these, remove the tape immediately and monitor the skin until it returns to normal. If you are concerned, contact a medical professional.
Practice aftercare
BDSM can exhaust you both physically and mentally. After a bondage session, take some time for both of you to recover. Release your submissive from his restraints and check his skin, snuggle, and eat and drink something. Once the excitement has passed, check in with each other and see if you’re both happy with what happened or if there’s anything you’d like to change in future sessions.